We are bound to our fears. We fear the unknown, we fear failure, we fear heartbreaks, we fear the dark, we fear what the future holds and we fear, fear.
However, we do not have to be bound by fear. I remembered what my father said to me once when I was younger: “Fear is nothing, when fear becomes reality, it distorts our reality. Because fear cannot become a reality. Our weakness to constantly worry and over think circumstances and events created fear. Fear is still nothing”.
I never understood why my dad told me this when I was just an ignorant (maybe a little arrogant) child. Still fresh from the greens of the budding leaf, fear was unknown to me. Well, not the fear we are talking about at least, I still feared the dark and the boggie man.
What I was referring to was the fear of our inability to comply with the requirements set to do any task. This is a very vague and general statement, but please be patient with me.
Fear doesn’t exist. It is a figment of our imagination. Due the imposition of social norms, values and beliefs. We are mold to comply these ridiculous sets of restrictions. We are socialized to think that if we do not comply, we are deviants, that we are the outcast, the uneducated, uncivilized. These rules tells us that if we are not what society wants, we are not healthy for society.
Think about it.
It has become an inert believe that we need the approval of society, that we fear that we don’t. Once we fear, we lose track of who we are, and who we can become. Far greater in terms of any social prerequisites.
Fine you can tell me that, “well we cant go against the world, its too big”
You misunderstand me. I never said to go against the world.
We do not create conflict, we must not, and we shall not. We have to better ourselves, be rational, think about the possibilities the probable causes and probable realities that might or might not happen if we make a certain decision or not. Once evaluations are made, what is there to fear if we are objective and logical in our decisions.
DO NOT FEAR!
Michael Jordan said, “I can accept failing, but I cannot accept not trying”.
Let fear go, try, and try, and try again. On the assumption that we do fail. Yes, we all hate the feeling of failure, like were worthless, a two bit try-hard. Then again, why not try. Rather sitting on yo’fat ass watching tv and sulking because of the fact that you failed. You lazy motherfucker, get the fuck up and try again. Don’t cry to give up, cry to keep going.
Emotions cloud our decisions and actions. But if you trust yourself, do not fear and keep soldiering on. There is nothing you can’t achieve.
If you fail. It is because you did not try mother fucking hard enough.
"In order to succeed, your desire for success must be greater than your fear of failure" Bill Cosby
Many greats out there, be it sport, the banking sector, the legal sector, anywhere, they fear not of failure. Because if you don’t try, that is failure already.
Giving up is not an option, because giving up is fear. Therefore, fear is not an option.
Now, any of ya’ll mother fuckers who are reading this. Do not ever give up in what you believe in, in what you do and never give up on a relationship just because its hard. Real bonds are built when there are tensions. You fight, don’t give up. If you do, it is going to be the biggest regret of you sad, mother fuckin worm lazy ass pussy, life.
Fear does not exist. You exist. Make what you want a reality.
This is the first step of having NO MORE WEAKNESS.